1) That you can't change someone just because you love them - Accept them for who they are, or if you cannot, then, move on. Don't make the mistake of thinking your love will change them. People rarely changes, and if they do, it will have to be a conscious, willing choice that comes from themselves, not you.
2) Communication is key - open, honest communication with each other even with the smallest issue. Often times, unresolved 'small issues' will snowball into something monstrous if needs are not communicated and expectations not met.
3) Letting go of someone I love is the HARDEST, HARDEST lesson I've ever had to learn. I suck at it! (still do) But, I learn that if you truly love someone, you want them to be happy, even if that means letting them go in some cases... so that they may find the happiness that they couldn't have with me.
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